There’s a certain honesty you only get from musicians who’ve lived a few lives. Tony Kamel fits squarely in that camp.
Tony writes and performs songs for a living. Some people even listen. He’s toured, recorded, chased the dream, and done the unglamorous work that keeps the lights on. Now, he’s also a dad navigating a very different kind of stage.
Tony lives in the Austin, Texas area with his wife and their four-year-old daughter. Their second child is arriving this February. When asked what the hardest part of parenting has been, he doesn’t romanticize it.
Everything is hard. Once you accept that hard is the baseline, it oddly gets easier. That mindset shift matters, especially in the early years. Sleep deprivation, he admits, is a real personality test.
Finding Meaning in the Small Stuff
For Tony, the most rewarding part of fatherhood isn’t the big milestones. It’s the small moments that show up quietly and disappear just as fast.
Right now, he’s his daughter’s favorite person in the world. He knows that season has an expiration date, and instead of fighting it or brushing past it, he’s choosing to enjoy it fully.
That awareness runs through how he approaches both parenting and work.
How Fatherhood Changed His Career
Before becoming a dad, Tony didn’t realize how much parenting would reshape his relationship with touring. It didn’t end his career, but it did change how it feels.
He still tours, just less. Not because he can’t do it, but because he doesn’t love it the same way anymore. There’s more guilt now. More awareness of what he’s missing. In his words, it’s a total blessing, even if it comes with tradeoffs. He also notes, with dry humor, that the middle-class touring world has mostly disappeared anyway.
Fatherhood didn’t shrink his ambition. It refined it.
The Best Advice He Ever Got
The advice that stuck with Tony is short and absolute.
Never go against your wife’s motherly instincts. Ever. Not even a little.
It’s a reminder that partnership matters, and that parenting works best when trust runs both ways.
A Typical Dad Day
Tony describes his days as suburban bliss. Early mornings, coffee and breakfast, school drop-off, yoga if he’s lucky, then work. It’s not flashy. It’s steady.
When work, life, and family all collide, he admits he doesn’t juggle it gracefully. Balls get dropped. Chaos shows up. The key is getting better at picking things back up and riding the wave instead of fighting it. His wife, who he describes as wildly organized, is the anchor. Without her, the operation falls apart.
Yoga and meditation help too, but he’s clear about what really keeps things moving. Teamwork.
Dad Life Non-Negotiables
Tony’s non-negotiable is one every parent recognizes instantly. If his daughter wants a song repeated, he repeats it. Even when it’s annoying.
He remembers what it felt like to be obsessed with a song as a kid. That joy, that sense of wonder, matters more than convenience.
When he gets time alone, his guilty pleasure isn’t glamorous. He paints houses. It’s a survival job. Not very rock-and-roll. Extremely relaxing. Especially the part where he’s not broke.
Playing the Long Game
Tony’s story is a reminder that fatherhood doesn’t end creative ambition. It reframes it. The wins get quieter. The priorities shift. The meaning deepens.
He’s still writing songs. Still performing. Still building a life that works for this season.
You can follow Tony at @tonykamelmusic.
Most dad content feels stale. Same cliche jokes. Same advice. Same version of what a “good dad” is supposed to look like.
Over the last year of building Dad Day, one thing became obvious: there are a lot of dads out there doing things differently. Building businesses from scratch. Creating community in unexpected ways. Taking the long road instead of the safe one. Not because it’s trendy, but because it feels right.
That’s where Go West came from.
Why Go West?
We’ve always been drawn to the people who went west before there was a clear path or a paved road. Not because it was easy, but because it was open. Uncertain. Full of possibility. Going west meant betting on yourself. Trusting your gut. Building something where there wasn’t much to build from yet.
That same mindset still exists today. It just shows up differently.
Go West isn’t about geography. It’s about choosing the harder, less obvious route. The one that doesn’t come with a script. The one where you figure things out as you go and build something meaningful along the way.
That’s the kind of dad we’re drawn to. And those are the stories we want to tell.
What Is Go West?
Go West is a short film series from Dad Day that spotlights modern dads carving their own path.
These aren’t highlight reels or polished success stories. They’re real looks at dads who build, dream, and act on ideas that don’t always fit the mold. Founders. Creators. Makers. Doers. Guys who decided not to follow the script and see where it led.
Some of these stories will be about business. Some about community. Some about family. All of them are about choosing a different way forward.
Because ordinary’s been done.
Why We’re Doing This
Dad Day has always been about more than tips, gear, or surface-level inspiration. It’s about showing what modern fatherhood actually looks like when you care deeply about how you spend your time, what you build, and the example you’re setting.
We wanted to create something that reflects that.
Go West is our way of telling deeper stories. Slower stories. Stories that don’t try to wrap everything up neatly in 60 seconds.
Episode One
The first episode features Robert Huffman, who sells coffee out of an old El Camino with one simple goal: foster connection and community.
It’s not about scale. It’s not about optimization. It’s about showing up, pouring into people, and building something meaningful in a way that feels human.
That episode drops soon.
What to Expect Going Forward
Each Go West film will focus on one dad and one story. No formulas. No templates. Just honest looks at people doing things their own way and sticking with it. This is just the beginning.
Watch the trailer below, and if it resonates, you’ll feel right at home with what’s coming next. Do us a solid and subscribe if it lands.
Meet Zack Telander — Austin-based musician, new dad, and the kind of guy who’ll rip a guitar solo at night and crush a diaper change at sunrise. You can find him on Instagram (@zack_telander) and hear his music on Spotify (search “Telander” and turn it up).
His take on fatherhood is honest, grounded, and absolutely on-brand for the Rad Dad universe.
The Dad Who Had to Slow Down to Keep Up
Zack has lived most of his adult life in go-mode. Music careers don’t care about “balance.” They’re fast, unpredictable, and built on momentum.
Then Charlie arrived.
The hardest part for him wasn’t the sleepless nights, although those are real. It was learning to slow down, to let the world shrink to the size of a baby’s hand gripping his finger.
Funny thing. The hardest part became the best part.
Every morning he goes on a walk with his wife, daughter, and their dog. No rushing. No forcing. Just a young family moving through the world together. He told us it’s the one thing he’d happily do forever.
That’s the type of dad moment you remember when you’re old.
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Duty Over Balance
A lot of dads talk about “balance.” Zack laughs at that idea.
He told us, “I don’t. It’s my duty to be a good dad and husband first.” No life hacks. No elaborate systems. Just simple duty and excitement to show up for his family. And when things get overwhelming, he returns to the things that reset him: playing guitar, singing, and lifting. The essentials.
He also protects two non-negotiables:
• Alone time
• Real dates with your partner
Quick Hits From Zack
Hardest part of parenting:
Slowing down. And yes, the sleep.
Most rewarding part:
Those morning family walks.
Wish he knew earlier:
Kids bring emotional balance.
Best advice he’s gotten:
“Your kids are watching everything you do. So do right.”
(A perfect Dad Wisdom fit. )
Typical day:
Up around 6:30, diaper, bottle, walk, play, nap. Repeat until bedtime.
Reset button:
Guitar, singing, the gym.
Flying solo hobbies:
Guinness, wings, YouTube. A legendary trio.
Why This Q&A Stuck With Us
Zack is the blueprint for the modern dad. Creative but grounded. Driven but present. Intentional without being precious about it. He is not chasing balance. He is not chasing perfection (we’ve talked about that one. Progress beats perfect every time. ) He is chasing presence.
Dad Day Takeaway
Slow down. Walk with your people. Keep one ritual that reminds you who you are outside of diapers and bottles. Remember your kids are watching. Let them see a life that’s worth following.
Want more of Zack? Follow him on IG (@zack_telander) and stream his music on Spotify. Perfect soundtrack for that early morning stroller walk. 🎧👶🏼